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Welcome to my Blog!

Hello and welcome! This blog started back in 2007 when I was just beginning to homeschool my son for preschool. It was a fun way to journal what we were up to and a place to share pictures and news with family and friends. We are not currently homeschooling, and all the posts from that blog seem to be long gone. However, I've decided to bring the blog back!

A good friend described my blog like this: "A professional photographer who shifted her focus to her family and home...being the best mom she can be to two beautiful, healthy kids, one of whom happens to have Down syndrome. She has fabulous organizational and resource tips, and shares her heart and faith along her journey of life." I love that description! I'm working to update my bio and blog description, and maybe even the title and blog address, along with a new look at some point soon I hope!

An (updated) little more about me... I'm not a newlywed anymore (more than a year! lol) but I am more in love than ever with my wonderful husband. I am the mother of an amazing 8-year old boy who makes me smile every single day, and a nearly 1-year old girl who has added a lot of love and joy to our family. As I mentioned above, she happens to have Down syndrome, which we discovered while still pregnant. As such, I've been dragged (kicking and screaming initially) into the Special Needs community. I am not an advocate. I'm a momma bear. As such, my blog may ocassionally be advocate-y (is that even a word? ha).

I strive to lead a Christ-focused life; my faith is at the center of who I am. I am blessed with wonderful and supportive family and friends. I try to remind myself always to view the glass as half-full and fully blessed. I love my family and friends, photography, baking, seasons, scrapbooking (though I rarely/never make time for it), flowers, and the holidays. I am taking a break from my photography business, but I am a mom and I still love photography (hence the blog name). I'm a bit of an inspirational quotes addict so I'll end this post with one of my favorites:

"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

Thanks for stopping by,

Michelle

Smart is NOT the New Beautiful

An article I skimmed today ended with the line “there is nothing more beautiful than being smart.” This hit a nerve for me and fits perfectly with what I’ve been reflecting on recently. Our society has long idolized physical beauty. And while I appreciate that we seem to be (at least in our words, though I would argue certainly not in our actions) moving away from this focus, I think our focus has shifted to something equally wrong – idolizing intelligence.

Many mothers (myself included, if I’m being honest) place a major emphasis on whether their children are “gifted” or how early they learned to read or how high they score on tests. As Christians, if we are more concerned with nurturing this intelligence than we are with nurturing their relationship with Christ, there’s a real problem. Which has a more long-lasting impact? Getting into a good college and being “successful” as an adult is pretty fleeting compared to eternity. But I digress a little.

When we learned during pregnancy that our daughter Lily would be born with Down syndrome, a major source of sadness for me was that she likely wouldn’t be “smart” or “beautiful” (at least by society’s standards). I know that I’m not alone in this feeling, and I don’t hold it against myself. However, it has caused me to re-evaluate what is truly important and what is “beautiful”. I do not accept this “smart is the new beautiful” idea. I reject it. Completely. I think idolizing intelligence is as dangerous and as negative as idolizing physical beauty. The real question is how does God define beauty?

Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting; the woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. -Proverbs 31:30

Your adornment should not be an external one: braiding the hair, wearing gold jewelry, or dressing in fine clothes, but rather the hidden character of the heart, expressed in the imperishable beauty of a gentle and calm disposition, which is precious in the sight of God. -1 Peter 3:3-4

But the LORD said to Samuel: Do not judge from his appearance or from his lofty stature, because I have rejected him. God does not see as a mortal, who sees the appearance. The LORD looks into the heart. – 1 Samuel 16:7

While there is certainly nothing wrong with admiring physical beauty or appreciating a person’s intelligence, I think we must be very, very careful to keep them in perspective. We must realize that these are given by God and not a reflection of our hearts. When we think with pride of our children or when we compliment them, we should be conscious of the fact that physical beauty and intelligence are not necessarily permanent parts of who we are, can be lost at any time, and are ultimately outside of our control. I would hate to inadvertently imply that these make a difference in how much I love my children or how much they are worth. Does a person’s IQ determine whether or not they are “beautiful”? I’m sure we can all think of highly intelligent people who are extremely “ugly” people. So, no, I do not believe that smart is the new beautiful. I believe working hard and doing our best is worthy of compliment. A naturally high IQ though, not really something to praise. I believe beauty is determined by internal character – patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness – these are the marks of TRUE beauty.

Smart is not the new beautiful. A beautiful character is the new beautiful.

Overnight Steel Cut Oats Recipe

Browsing around pinterest and some of my favorite recipe sites I kept running across various recipes for oatmeal made in a slow cooker overnight. I don’t typically use steel cut oats, but have wanted to try them for some time. This article gives a quick breakdown of the different types of oats as well as a comparison of the nutritional info. Based on this, I won’t give up my rolled oats any time soon. However, for a slow cooker breakfast I’m sure rolled oats would be nothing but mush by morning. True, I could just make the rolled oats on the stovetop, but then it wouldn’t have the wonderful cooked apples and raisins that I can get using the slow cooker overnight. And, it wouldn’t be ready to eat first thing in the morning! I’ve made it twice now, and both times was really pleased with the results. Even better were the muffins I made with the leftover oatmeal, but I’ll share that recipe another day!

It’s not all that pretty to look at, but it sure was tasty!

I made this using one of my favorite appliances, my 1-1/2-Quart Round Slow Cooker. I absolutely love this little workhorse of a crock pot. The only downside is that, unlike my larger crock pot, it’s not programmable. So, I have to either set my alarm to switch it to “keep warm” after 6 hours or just deal with oatmeal that is a little mushier. I’ll let you guess which one I chose ;) First I used almond milk and then dairy milk. Some recipes call for only water, others only milk. I think any combination of liquid would work fine. I tried omitting the butter (the almond milk day, to make it dairy-free for Lily) and it tasted fine. (That might be because I topped mine with a little bit of butter while hot from the cooker, haha.) It probably also helps keep it from sticking to the sides of the crock pot. You may want to adjust the spices according to your taste preferences. I also think it needs a bit more sugar, but I prefer to add it in the morning. The first day I topped it with a bit of butter and additional brown sugar, then used my spoon to make a little “moat” around the outside edge and poured in extra milk. I liked that way best because it’s how I remember my mom serving oatmeal when I was a kid. Today I topped it with plain yogurt, which also went nicely and gave me a boost of probiotics.

The ingredient lineup (minus the milk, which was feeling a little camera shy)

Looked like this first thing in the morning before stirring it up

Overnight Oats Recipe – Makes approximately 6 servings

Ingredients

  •  1 cup steel cut oats
  • 2 cup milk
  • 2 cup water
  • 2 apples, peeled and chopped
  • 1/2 cup raisins
  • 2 tablespoons butter
  • 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
  • 2 tablespoons brown sugar
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • extra light tasting olive oil (to lightly coat slow cooker)

 Directions

Spray slow cooker with olive oil (I use extra light tasting olive oil, not extra virgin, but feel free to use vegetable oil or non-stick spray.) Combine all the ingredients in the slow cooker. Stir to combine. Cover and cook on low for 6-8 hours. (Slow cookers tend to cook differently, so you’ll need to know your slow cooker and/or experiment to get the right time for the consistency your family prefers.) Serve with your favorite toppings and enjoy!

January 25, 2013 - 12:26 am Laura @ House Of Joyful Noise - Thanks for the recipe, and the tips! Can't wait to try it. :)

Amazingly Delicious Skillet Chocolate Chip Cookie

I’m not a food blogger…not like the real food bloggers,  but sometimes I like to pretend LOL!  (If you’re a weirdo about grammar – like I tend to be – you might be thinking, hey – is the skillet delicious or is the cookie? Well, the cookie is delicious, but the skillet rocks!) I came across this recipe a while back. In fact, it inspired me to purchase my Lodge Cast Iron Skillet back in August.  I then proceeded to let it sit unopened for a month or two because my mom told me that even though it’s pre-seasoned I should still season it myself before using it. I was a little intimidated. And lazy. Finally I could stand it no longer. I googled instructions on how to prepare a cast iron skillet for first use. (It’s really simple, so don’t be intimidated like I was. Or lazy.) And between you and me, I’m still not convinced this step was necessary, as the instructions clearly state it is done for you already, but I did it anyway. Cause I’m good like that – and I listen to my mom. I pulled it out at Thanksgiving to make dinner rolls that were completely delicious. Wow. I was hooked on this skillet. It also puts a beautiful sear on steak (though you’ll definitely want to open a window or two!). I love that it goes right from stovetop to oven. I don’t know why I never owned a cast iron skillet prior to this. There are more expensive ones available (aren’t there always?!) but after a few uses I knew why this thing had over a thousand reviews and still a nearly 5 star rating!

Anyways, I digress. If you don’t own a cast iron skillet, go get one. Today. Or, order it from my amazon link and I’ll get a few cents and maybe one day I too can become a real food blogger, worthy of pinning on pinterest ;) Finally, I decided to give that chocolate chip cookie recipe a try. I thought it would be a really yummy after-school surprise for my son. And, let’s be honest – I’m 25 weeks pregnant (have I mentioned that? maybe not. Well, I am.) and sometimes a girl just wants chocolate. And when that girl happens to have a case of raging pregnancy-induced hormonal cravings, it’s best just to give in and get it over with. Enter the Amazingly Delicious Skillet Chocolate Chip Cookie… super easy (you don’t even need an electric mixer!) and super delish, especially the next day, cold from the fridge. Mmmm….

First, the ingredient lineup. Note my masterful food photography skills. Give me a cell phone camera, and I’ll make magic happen. Haha!

Here’s how it looked before I smooshed it into the pan with my hands

Out of the oven and cooling

Amazingly Delicious Skillet Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe

  • 3/4 cup melted butter, unsalted
  • 1 cup brown sugar, packed
  • 1/2 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 egg
  • 1 egg yolk
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 3/4 tsp baking soda
  • 1 rounded teaspoon kosher salt
  • 2 tsp vanilla
  • 1 1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Combine both sugars with melted butter and stir until there are no lumps.

Stir in the vanilla, egg and egg yolk until mixture is smooth.

Add in the flour, baking soda, and salt. Stir until just combined.

Fold in chocolate chips.

Spread evenly in a 10-12″ cast iron skillet. (I started with the wooden spoon, then used my hands to smoosh it into the skillet until it looked even.)

Bake for 15-20 minutes until the edges start to look golden. Don’t overcook. (I like mine to be gooey, but a little more set, so I went about 20 minutes) Cool on wire rack for 10 minutes. You can scoop it into bowls or allow it to fully cool and cut into bars. Yum. Enjoy!

You can check out the source of the recipe here. She’s a real food blogger, as you’ll see by her pretty food pictures. I’m a photographer, as you can NOT see by my cell phone snapshots LOL! Enjoy!

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and Portraits!

Just a quick post since it’s been a while.  We had a wonderful Christmas and New Year, and I hope all of you did too! I was going to ramble on about our various holiday celebrations, but I did promise to keep this quick, so I’ll get right to the portraits. We actually went and had a family portrait taken at a local chain studio. While I did use the family photo on the cover of our Christmas card (the design turned out super cute, if I do say so myself – lol) I wasn’t thrilled enough with to make it our new family wall portrait. I was completely unimpressed with the individual shots of just the kids, so I did my own portrait session with them and was quite happy with the results. So, here ya go. Enjoy!

Lily’s One Year Portraits

I finally got around to taking Lily’s one year portraits (only two months late LOL)! She’s not yet walking, so I guess I can’t call her a “toddler”, but I would still have to categorize her that way in terms of level of difficulty to photograph. Only slightly easier than chasing a walking and running toddler, the girl gave me a workout! However, I think the results were worth the effort. What do you think? Actually, as I was going through the photos to decide which ones to edit and keep, I realized this was one of “those sessions”…the kind where I have so many images that I love that it’s hard to decide which ones to show the client – in this case, myself! I kept my light up for an extra few days in order to get Christmas portraits of both kids, and I’ll share those in another post. (You can get a little glimpse of two of them in my newly updated header.) All in all, it was a great week of portraits! Enjoy :)

January 11, 2013 - 7:54 pm Missy - She is beautiful! What a little sweetheart!

Easy Slow Cooker Pot Roast (using NO soup mixes!)

I have a lot of pasture-raised pork and beef in my freezer from a local farm. I have another order coming soon (guess I overestimated our meat consumption!) So, I’m trying to make room in the freezer by cooking up some of the larger packages. I was looking for a slow cooker pot roast recipe. Nearly every one had either a ridiculously long list of ingredients or called for onion soup mix and/or cream of mushroom soup. The onion soup mix has a heck of a lot of extra non-real-food ingredients (though it is delicious in a pinch for french onion dip!) – seriously though, read the ingredients. Or, if you’re going to use it with a packet of sour cream for dip, don’t read the ingredients – just close your eyes and dip…mmm! I also wanted to avoid cream of mushroom soup for the same reason, in addition to the fact that Lily can’t tolerate dairy and thus using a soup with any form of milk is out of the question. I came across this recipe on a blog I like, and modified it, as follows:

(Thought I’d get all fancy and blogger-y with the iphone snapshot LOL! What do you think?)

Easy Slow Cooker Pot Roast (using NO soup mixes!)

  • 3 pounds beef roast (give or take…mine isn’t labeled by weight and I didn’t bother to weigh it, so I’m guesstimating here)
  • 2 tablespoons flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
  • 2 teaspoons garlic powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon seasoned salt
  • 1 1/2 tablespoons dried minced onions
  • 3 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce (I thought it was a smidge too strong, so I’m going to use 2 tablespoons next time. G said he thought it was perfect.)
  • 3/4 cup beef broth
  • 1 small can sliced mushrooms, drained (or you could use fresh)
  • 1 cup baby carrots (sliced in half)
  • 1 cup sliced celery

I truly despise steps that require cooking prior to the cooking that happens in the crock pot. I’m thinking for some people it might be preferable to brown the meat first. However, I didn’t have the time or inclination, and I thought it turned out just fine! In a ziploc bag I combined the flour, salt, pepper, garlic powder, seasoned salt, and minced onions. Then I added the meat to the bag and shook it up until the meat was completely coated in the mixture. Dropped the meat into the crock pot and tipped out the little remaining flour and seasonings on top. Tossed in the carrots and celery and sliced mushrooms. Poured the Worcestershire sauce and then the beef broth over the top. Cover and cook on high 4-6 hours, until done. I also turned the meat over once during the cooking process, but that’s probably an unnecessary step. I made mashed potatoes to go with the pot roast and veggies, and used some of the “sauce” from the crock pot as a bit of a gravy. You could add a little more liquid and easily make up a nice gravy.  I didn’t take a picture of the final meal, just the snapshot of it once it was all in the slow cooker. I’ll tell you though, it turned out great. Enjoy!

Those Cute Bento Lunches for Kids!

You know, I so want to be one of those moms who packs an adorable, theme based lunch every.single.day. One of those moms with so many in fact that I could have an entire blog dedicated to those cute bento style lunches. I admire those moms, but heck I can’t even get into the habit of packing lunch the night before, let alone making elaborate Angry Birds and Pigs out of cheese, pimentos, olives, and bread. Ha! Now and then I get inspired and do try to come up with something cute and within a theme. But most days it looks something like today’s lunchbox: “ritz” type crackers, hormone-free cheddar, organic bell pepper and apple slices, nitrate-free deli ham (we’ve finally moved beyond pepperoni!!!!) rolled up and cut in half. Of course, a lunch wouldn’t be complete without a little love from home, either a goofy picture drawn by G or a note with a joke or riddle from me. I also try to include a *small* sweet treat. Did I ever tell you about the times I’ve volunteered in class and watched kids devour their lunches from home…guess what? If you pack chocolate cupcakes, potato chips, and twinkies…they are the first to get eaten, and usually the last because the child is either full or their very short lunch period is over! Just something to think about… so, today I included a hershey kiss. I think it’s cute to include a “kiss”, it gives him a little treat to finish off his meal, and I know it’s not enough to ruin his appetite even if he eats it first.

I’ve also gotten really good (not that I’m tooting my own horn or anything LOL!) at estimating the right amount of food for his appetite and the time he has to eat lunch. Earlier in the week I packed a ham and cheese sandwich on homemade artisan bread from a recipe I recently found, and will be sharing in another post (it was too good and far too easy not to share!). I wasn’t sure if he would like the bread or eat the sandwich, but he did – he ate the entire sandwich and said the bread was really good! (Some of my past attempts at homemade bread haven’t been as well received, so this was a victory in itself!)

I always like it when people share product information – I really do! It drives me nuts when I see super cute ideas but no indication of where to get the items pictured, so here ya go! (And yep, just like my recommendations link, if you purchase anything using my links my family will get a small commission from the sale. So….thanks!!) This Lock & Lock Container with Trays is still probably my favorite container when I’m packing a bento style lunch for Logan.  I also love this Lunch Box and use it nearly every day for his lunch. It is one of the few upright lunch bags that I’ve found. In today’s lunch (and most days) I used these Ice Packs, which are my favorite compact ice packs. I usually put one underneath the lunch container and one on top. And finally, I included one of these Bento Forks, both to give the lunch a little dose of “cute” and for the practical purpose of picking up the ham rolls and cheese if he chooses.

Hope this inspires you to pack healthy and yummy lunches for your own kids. Even if you don’t have the time or creativity to come up with fabulous and creative theme based bento lunches (I know I usually don’t!), it only takes a few minutes to put something like this together. And these have the same appeal as the pre-packaged lunchables with a lot more nutrition (and though I haven’t calculated it, I would bet they are either comparable in cost or less expensive too!)

Evaluation at Down Syndrome Clinic

A few weeks ago we took Lily for her (first) annual visit to the Down syndrome clinic. She was 12 months at the time, and the appointment consisted of a visit and evaluation with each of the following professionals:

  • Pediatric Neurologist
  • Occupational therapist
  • Physical therapist
  • Speech language pathologist
  • Audiologist

We left the house with plenty of time to get downtown and still grab a coffee in the hospital coffee shop (or so we thought!) Turned out to be a challenge just getting there before 8am, let alone early. We made it with just a few minutes to spare (and no coffee…grrr). I wasn’t sure what to expect from Lily since we were in for a very long morning. Our time in the clinic was over four hours, but Lily really held up well with no nap and only one bottle. She was a real trooper, though she could barely keep her eyes open by the end and kept falling asleep in my arms waiting for the lab for her blood draw (to test thyroid).

We received the results of the evaluations, and they were basically what I’d expected. However, I have to be honest, some were harder to read than others. I also have to wonder if I predisposed the evaluators with my comments. I went in saying I felt her fine motor skills and speech were delayed. Guess what the results showed? Delays in fine motor and speech. It’s possible (likely) that I just know her better than anyone and am best able to evaluate and gauge where she is developmentally.  Still… I wonder. Next year I will not give them my opinion in advance.

I’ll share with y’all a brief overview and details from each of the areas in which she was tested.

Physical Therapy

Lily did great at this evaluation, showing off her impressive gross motor skills! One of the assessments put her at a GMQ (gross motor quotient) of 91, solidly in the range of average (which is great!). For reference, a score of 100 indicates a child developing in an average manner for age, 70 or below indicates significant delay, 70-85 indicates borderline delay, and anything between 85 and 115 indicates low average to high average range.  They also provide an age equivalent in three areas, and I’ll share her specific scores. Stationary Skills: between 11 and 13 months, Locomotion: 9 months (not sure why this was lower, considering 12 months is the average age that typically developing children are walking independently – with some obviously walking earlier and some later). Object Manipulation: 12 months.

Some of the excerpts of the comments in the report include, “Lily presents with typical ROM (range of motion) in the lower extremities. No significant laxity or excessive mobility noted. Low normal muscle tone in the trunk and lower extremities. Movement patterns at this developmental stage are similar to those of children without Down syndrome. She crawls proficiently, maintaining her hips in a neutral position and moving her legs in a reciprocal pattern. She can crawl up an entire flight of stairs. She can pull to stand and is starting to cruise.  Lily demonstrates gross motor skills in the range of 9-12 months, with some higher level skills as well. She demonstrates good control over her ankles and feet in supportive standing.”

I brought up treadmill training, which they were familiar with, but did not seem to know a lot about it.  They clearly did some research between our appointment and the report because they included details about Dr. Ulrich and the fact that the research results have been very promising. They don’t have the same treadmill used in the research, but do have a Lite Gait, which could be used to trial the protocol if we are interested. It goes beyond the potential benefit of walking up to 4 months sooner, but I don’t think we will pursue this right now because we have other areas that need greater focus of our time and budget. However, it is fascinating data if you’re interested in checking it out. And, if we have a fairy godmother who wants to send us a mini treadmill we’ll gladly trial the protocol with Lily ;)

Speech-Language Pathology

This was one of the visits that I began by saying I felt she was delayed. Next time I won’t do that. I know they are professionals and I’m not questioning the results (because I really DO think she is delayed here LOL). However, I do have to wonder if the results were at all swayed by my comments. When you read some of the scores and comments you’ll understand why this was one of the more difficult reports for me to read.

I’ll begin with some excerpts from their report. “Lily was alert and social. She displayed appropriate social interaction for her age and stage of development. She smiled frequently, and laughed during play routines with the adults in the room. She used eye gaze and touch to support her communication, play, and  interaction. She used intentional communication during the evaluation to communicate a variety of pragmatic functions: she became animated to indicate excitement and pleasure; reached to request; and turned/pushed away to refuse or protest. Lily filled her turn vocally when engaged in playful routines. She produced several mid vowels and five consonants (H, M, B, D, Y) during interactive play; most often these vocalizations were vowel only or reduplicated combinations (eg. dadada, bababa).”

They used the Rossetti Infant-Toddler Language Scale to measure her language skills. On that scale she was scored the following: Interaction/Attachment: 9-12 months, Pragmatics: 9-12 months, Gesture: No items until the 9-12 months level (this is listed under Emerging Skills as 9-12 months, so I assume this means that she has not “mastered” any of the skills measured in this category but is showing emerging skills at the 9-12 month level), Play: 6-9 months, Language Comprehension: 6-9 months, Language Expression: 6-9 months.

Further comments related to the scores: “Lily’s strongest skills were demonstrated in the Interaction/Attachment and Pragmatics domains. These skills included displaying some fear of strangers, allowing release of contact in new situations, and using vocalizations more frequently during interactions. Lily demonstrated skills in language comprehension and expression that included looking at the person saying her name, vocalizing in response to verbal requests, vocalizing with intent. Lily is not yet waving “hi” or “bye” or saying “mama” or “dada” meaningfully and these skills can be viewed as ‘next steps.’ Lily presents with a phonology/speech delay and a receptive/expressive language delay. Lily’s performance today suggests that her receptive and expressive communication skills are developing somewhat more slowly than her cognitive and related sensorimotor skills. This suggests it would be a good time to begin to prioritize communication development”

In terms of Oral Motor, they had this to say, “General observation revealed no evidence of asymmetry or oral anomaly. Low oral motor tone was present, and it was also noted that Lily maintained an open mouth posture, with forward tongue carriage; these factors could interfere with articulatory precision. Overall, the structure and function of Lily’s speech mechanism were observed to be adequate for the support of functional speech.”

After reading the report, I am even more interested in what we can do to improve her oral motor tone. I was considering purchasing this kit from Talk Tools. However, an online friend was nice enough to send me the DVD, so I will watch that first and decide what to incorporate. If anyone has great tips or techniques on ways to improve tone in this area, I would love to hear from you! If you saw the stack of books on my coffee table waiting to be read, you’d know I need all the help I can get! I am in the process of completing my reading enough to formulate more of an official plan and daily routine to address some of these issues more directly.

Occupational Therapy

Another area I expected to show as delayed, and probably the least positive report of the three. I would like to note for the record (LOL) that she was overtired and hungry by the time we got to this evaluation. Some excerpts, with my commentary in italics, lol: “Lily demonstrates low muscle tone with hypermobile joints (really? because physical therapy did not seem to indicate this, but okay), especially noted at her wrists and fingers, consistent with her diagnosis of Down syndrome (oh, how comments like this IRRITATE me…. to be fair, G and I don’t really see eye to eye on this topic. He thinks we should be comparing her to the Ds population and expect results consistent with her diagnosis. I think we should be comparing her to the typical population and expect her to achieve or nearly achieve normal function on a typical timeline. I fully understand this may not be realistic, but that’s my opinion and I’m sticking to it. For someone who shares my view to the extreme, check out Naturally Better Kids. I’m reading the ebook right now. While she may be really, really out there in some regards, at least from my perspective, I do love her attitude. I certainly won’t implement all of her guidelines, but some of them I already do, and others I am further researching now.) There were no limits in upper extremity range of motion. Strength was normal during functional activity, with no asymmetries or abnormal movement patterns. She had short fingers and hands.”

On the Peabody Developing Motor Scale (PDMS-2) (same one used in the gross motor evaluation), she scored 76 on the Fine Motor Quotient (FMQ), putting her toward the bottom of the “borderline fine and visual motor skills.” See scale in the PT section above for more about the score ranges. For the age equivalents, she scored at 7 months for Grasping and 8 months for Visual Motor Integration. Observation notes: “Lily scored a FMQ of 76 indicating delayed fine and visual motor skills when compared to the general population. On the grasping section Lily grasped pellets using either a raking grasp or inferior pincer, although often swiped and pushed the pellet off the table, crumpled paper with her fingers and grasped a block with her fist. Lily banged blocks together at midline, banged a cup briefly on the table, transferred a block and extended her arm to pick up toys. Lily is able to crawl and move around the room independently. She is not yet helping with dressing.”

Obviously, the development of her fine motor skills is an area that we really need to focus on. Part of what may have held us back I think is Lily’s level of activity and gross motor focus. She just likes to move around, which isn’t usually helpful in working on fine motor skills. All of the reports also included a section with the therapists’ recommendations. Some were more thorough and helpful than others, but all have given me at least a few good ideas. The OT report was the least helpful in terms of what we can work on at home, but specifically gave a recommendation for outpatient OT services with treatment focused on “kinetic activity”, as well as a list of goals for the treating therapist. It doesn’t give me much to work with in terms of what I can do at home, but it does give me some good ideas on goals to set.

Summary

I’m not sure why I go into such detail here. I know there are friends and family who are interested and read these updates, and I’ve considered making my blog private since lately it seems a lot of this is really just, well, private. I’m not sure it’s really of any benefit to anyone other than us. It’s also a great way for me to journal and keep track of various milestones and information. At any rate, the day of evaluation was pretty exhausting for me, to be honest. Reading the reports was alternately invigorating and exhausting. I know that we have a lot of work to do. The impressive thing is that Lily has progressed to this point with little outside intervention. Early Intervention does visit once a month, but it’s usually more observation and discussion than actual hands-on therapy. The therapists are great resources, but I feel we need more. To this point the only focus has been gross motor, and even that has really been minimal and primarily my DIY efforts. I have not put nearly enough effort into speech or fine motor skills. That will change. As I said, I’m trying to get through a huge stack of books, and will put together a comprehensive plan of action to address these areas. I also hope to get her into some private therapy, partially to better equip myself in tackling all of this.

Thanks for the continued support and prayers!

Because a post just wouldn’t be complete without a photo or two, here’s a collage of iphone snapshots from the last several weeks.

 

January 9, 2013 - 6:45 pm Jennifer Munson (mila535 on BC) - I just wanted to thank you for providing such an in-depth look at what a check-up at a Down syndrome clinic looks like! Gemma is almost two and we have not taken her to a specialized clinic as of yet because she was, and continues, to do well, and there isn't one in our immediate area. I've always wanted to know what we are missing and am encouraged by your post to make an appointment. Love, love, LOVE your pictures!! Lily and Logan are both so beautiful! (p.s. I also have an enormous stack of books on my nightstand that mock me every time I try to go to bed without doing at least a little research ;)

January 9, 2013 - 8:50 pm mwac - Thanks Jennifer! I'm glad to know it's not just me with the stack of books mocking her LOL :)

Family Summer Vacation

Oops, this is an old post that was hiding out in my Drafts folder! Seems funny to post it now that the holidays are well underway and Christmas is coming up. But it has been sooo busy the past few months, and I journaled it already, so I figured I might as well share!

After our trip to GWL (blogged about it at the beginning of August), L and G spent the following week at Cub Scout Camp, and had a great time. It was a day camp, so they left in the morning and were home for dinner each evening. I loved hearing about all of the activities L was able to participate in…archery, bb shooting, watching and putting on skits, craft projects (but cool *boy* kinda craft projects!), and a number of other fun activities. I was so appreciative that my husband took the entire week off from work so that he could volunteer as a leader and do this with L. I think they are both already looking forward to next year.

The last day of Cub Scout camp, Friday, in between caring for Lily I spent the day finishing laundry, getting food prepared, and getting myself and the kids packed for our trip to the beach. My parents, my brother and his wife, and their two boys had arrived that afternoon and so we were anxious to get there to join them. When the boys got home from camp we loaded up the car and hit the road. We managed to arrive before bedtime. My dad found a great deal and we stayed at a really nice resort with a warm swimming pool. We had two rooms which were right across the hall from each other. So, it was really convenient to pop across the hall for the meals we were having in. The kids had a great time in the pool and on the beach. Lily experienced her first time in the sand, her first time in a swing, and her first time in a pool, and loved all three! We went to our favorite pizza place and walked around downtown. The kids rode a mini train, we flew kites, went to the aquarium, and we swam in the pool some more. We even saw some Star Wars characters. Unfortunately my mom caught the cold that I had the week before, only it was much worse for her so she spent most of the time in bed. I felt so awful for her! The little ones were all in various stages of colds as well, but we all pushed through and had a great time with our family. It was a long weekend, but it seemed to fly by. I’m ready to go back!

On Monday after checking out of the hotel we drove over to another beach to spend a little more time. My brother and his family had to get home, but my parents went with us. My mom was still not feeling great and only stayed for a bit and then my dad rode back into town with us. That afternoon on the beach was the best sand time we had, at least for me. It was practically deserted and really clean. That’s where I got some of my favorite photos of L and L, which I already shared.

A quick photo collage to share some of the highlights with you:

Awesome Bath Toy!

Ok, I promise this isn’t going to become one big product recommendation blog…but I HAVE to share this awesome bath toy I recently bought for Lily. As I may have mentioned (have I?) I’m becoming more concerned with her fine motor skill development, so I’ve been on a quest for great toys and DIY items that we can use to encourage fine motor skills. She didn’t really have any bath toys and she’s kind of at that age now where playing in the bathtub is a natural part of bathtime. She enjoys splashing around in the water, and it’s a time when she’s actually sitting in one place. So, I took a peek on amazon to see what I could find. I bought a couple of toys, including this Boon Splat Floating Ring Toss. Not only is it really inexpensive, but it looked like a great toy to encourage fine motor skills. Even better, it’s advertised as being BPA-free, Phthalate-free and PVC-free! Best part is – Lily loves it!! She doesn’t yet stack the rings on the floating base (stacking is an important skill that we are just starting to work on) but the rings are the perfect size and shape for her to practice her pincer grasp. I think this toothless smile says it all!

 

November 25, 2012 - 4:57 am Leah - Just put it on my wish list! And could Lily BE any cuter!?